Its crazy todays society...how we encourage false love(lust) I know once I thought I was in love with someone but, little Did i know
it was just the opposite... It felt so right I felt so sure but unlike love. lust put me through much more Than I could handle. Lust will hurt, lie, manipulate, steal, and kill you..if you let it.Clearly this relationship didnt work because it wasn't true love.. It
was something that I THOUGHT i knew the difference between.. It was lust. Ya see Lust is a kind of emotion that will trick you
If your not careful. You have to know one simple thing to truly know if its love...GOD IS lOVE... SO if god doesn't approve or if God is not
not only first within the couple as indivuals but as a WHOLE the relationship is bound to fail.You may think it will last forever and you may want
it too but it simply wont. I want to tell this story of a relationship because often times Im the one that is asked
my opinion and how i feel.. Therefore I feel like its my obligation to provide an example of what will be a failed relationship beause God is not
present in either one of these indivuals.I won't use real names I will just call the guy Justin and the girl Sarah.. So lets beigin with how justin use to treat Sarah
Let me be honest Justin was an all out hoe..he slept with anyone and anything that moved, while he was still with Sarah...sarah
cried so many nights and days she even texted me asking me what to do. I couldn"t really give Sarah a straight answer because
no matter what i said I KNEW she should would go back to Justin so I just simply said follow your heart and of course she ended up
going right back to justin even though she knew he was lying, cheating, and manipulating her. Now Justin did his dirt and he was wrong but Sarah also started
becoming extremely sneaky and hiding things So the realtionship continues on and Justin has a change of heart he begins to be faithful to Sarah but of course its natural not to trust someone aftter they have constantly lied and cheated. So sarah begin to resent Justin
and she always brought up how he was in the past, she claimed she forgave him but if that was the truth she would have just dropped it and not brought it up and again
Yet, she keeps hanging it over his head . This begins to cause\problems a person doesn't want to keep hearing about the
mistakes they made in the past, If you truly forgive a person you will no longer hold on to things that happened in the past. Now as the
relationship progresses so does the anger that these two indivuals have for one another. They have phone conversations and when
he gets mad he starts calling her all kinds of names, belittling her and she does him the same way. Now you tell me is that " love" Now as for her I know
she provokes alot of the anger that Justin has, Its almost like she wants to see him upset or mad. I know of incidents where Justin was probably abusing her
to a certain degree, I dont think the realtionship has boundaries or barriers and Its just some things a person shouldn't say or do,. Because it has NOTHING to do
with them. Now which brings me to my next point this couple is going through all of this "drama" and she is only eighteen and he
nineteen In my opinion I feel as though they are too young to go through so much pain with each other. A relationship is hardwork Yes it can be fun at times but people don't realize that while you can be completely playing about love or the relationship in general
someone's feelings and emotions are at stake and you need to think aboout that before jumping into something with someone. Im NOT a realtionship expert but
I do honsestly believe that without God your relationship will be a mess, Eventually it will fall apart and then after it does the people invovled will be completely
and utterly lost,PORTIA ****OUT****
